You finally found a boyfriend that you think suits you the best. He is interested in you and it’s easy to maintain your relationships in the beginning. As you move further, you will find out that it is not as simple.
But first let’s go through the list of things a man would be annoyed by and what can ruin your relationships:
1) You never leave him alone
Men need their personal space usually more than women do. If you don’t give him time alone to do his “men’s things” it will lead to a conflict.
2) You try to change him
Most of the time if a man decides to change himself it will be his personal decision and you have nothing to do with it.
3) You start pressing him
Vital questions in your relationships like buying a house, getting married or having kids will not be made if you press him. Once again it should be your mutual agreement rather than you pulling him far ahead his plans. He may change his feelings quickly if he feels too much pressure from you.
4) You criticize him
It is annoying for anybody if someone criticize his or her behaviour. Men in particular suffer from criticism. There are much better ways to solve the problem.
5) You are not trustworthy
Nobody likes to be told lies. It is impossible to build long term relationships on lies. Men in particular don’t want to be with women who are untrustworthy.
If you are sure that you want to be with him for a long time, you need to know these 5 tips on how to keep your boyfriend forever:
1) Know your boundaries
As times goes on you both will understand that everybody needs some personal space. It is vital especially if you start to live together. Respect each other personal spaces and enjoy your time apart. It will make you feel independent within your relationships. If you maintain your boundaries and don’t invade his private space, he will surely appreciate it.
2) Diversify your sexual life
It is easy to be infatuated in the beginning of relationships. But after a while people get caught in routine and for some sex life becomes more of a duty rather than pleasure. Find a way diversify your sexual life from time to time to keep your man interested. Otherwise, there is a possibility that he will look for it somewhere else.
3) Praise him
Everybody likes to be praise and men enjoy it in particular. Reward his good behavior and don’t put him down. Do not try to criticize or manipulate him. It is better to praise his good behavior to strengthen his desire for repeating this behavior in the future. If you acknowledge him in public, it is even better.
4) Be reliable and trustworthy
Trust is one of the most important components of any relationships. Building love on a lie is impossible. It is much better to live with a woman who is trustworthy. You should become a person whom he would trust the most. It is not as difficult as you may think. Apart from that reliability is the next valuable feature. If he can rely on you, it is the first step to marriage and long term relationships.
5) Know his likes
Learn his habits and likes and act according to them. You can make a surprise for him by preparing his favorite food or taking him to the place that he likes to visit. When he is stressed you can always use this knowledge to help him relax and it will be definitely appreciated.